Hi, I’m Jay.
I create spaces where people connect—with their bodies, their desires, and the parts of themselves that have gone quiet.
Whether you’re here to explore, find creative ways to approach arousal, collaborate on something sizzling, or just see what I’ve been up to—you’re in the right place.
→ I’m an author of queer, femme-centered erotica.
→ I’m a coach and creative collaborator specializing in sexual self-confidence and sensual embodiment.
→ And I’m one half of ijkink, where I make ethical, real-couple adult content that blends intimacy, curiosity, and emotional connection.
I built this site honestly and in my autonomy, as an expression of my erotic curiosity and creative freedom.
Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t—and come back anytime.
Start where you’re curious:
Read The Sizzle Journal
Essays on embodiment, performance, creativity, sexuality, and living with sizzle.
‘Sizzle’ is the energy that radiates from a person’s presence, showing up in their movements, their words, and the way they connect with others. It’s the physical embodiment of vitality and sensuality, bringing energy and emotion to life.
Literotica: Lucy’s Experience
A queer coming-of-pleasure told through kink, confidence, and creative chaos.
Check out my literotica series – Lucy’s Experience: The Erotic Adventures of A Kinky Bisexual Showgirl — queer, femme, and full of heart (and horniness).
Ethical Porn: ijkink
This is what it looks like when we follow our desires and bring the camera along.
Sex, chemistry, and real-time exploration—filmed with care and curiosity by real-life lovers.
Take Pleasure + Playfulness
Learn to harness playfulness as a pathway to sexual self-confidence.
Reconnect to your body. Reclaim your sensual joy. Rediscover the power of play. This 100% free, self-guided digital course is my love letter to your sexual liberation.
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I rarely send newsletters out— when I do, know you’re getting sizzling news delivered directly from me to you.
Join my email list for project updates and behind-the-scenes perspectives from all sides of my work (that you definitely won’t get anywhere else).